Throughout our lifetime, we as a people have all dealt with the notion of wanting to be loved and seeking love in the presence or arms of all kinds of people, from female and male friends to lovers to family members just to name a few. So, in this inquiry/slash rant, I am just wondering why do you, the reader feel like you deserve to be loved?
At first thought, one might say because I’m cute, lovable and charming, which may be true. But that doesn’t qualify you of being one that is deserving of real love. As Mary J. Blige once said in her song, “Real love exists in the deepest part of one’s soul, while the other characteristic exists in the midst of one’s heart and eyes.” So, the essence of love exists even when the other person doesn’t know or feel you thinking about them. It’s like a craving that one just can’t shake, like two young kids up all night on the phone, talking about ‘are you sleep?” as the music winds down into the early hours of the night.
So why do you deserve to be loved when you are sneaking and creeping? Emotional and mental cheating is worse than the actual act itself, because one’s mate doesn’t have a clue that the one, they love with is in love with someone else. So why do you deserve to be loved? Is it because you feel like you are a baby momma’ or baby daddy and you should get some sort of special privilege? Neither one of those are concrete reasons for why you should feel or deserve to be loved.
If you’re not a responsible person and worthy of one’s love, then your sense of deserving is futile and a waste of thought and time. So, tell me why do you deserve to be loved? Do you seek happiness, laughter, joy and do you believe that your sex is good and that one just can’t get enough of you? Well, my name is Mark A. White 05671-028 a.k.a Milk-D and I haven’t had sex since 1999 and I deserve to be loved. Because I know how to love and how to share my love. I know how to listen to the one I love, and I am not afraid to open my heart up to someone that I feel is deserving of my love. So why do you deserve to be loved?
